Audio Zepis NUMERO DVACE Vosim Kopraznini Today in the studio we are talking to Dr. Newman.0:00
Dr. Newman is a well known educationist and child psychologist who has established a number of schools for children.0:10
Well, doctor, many people today tend to think that children are different and that it's fairly difficult to cope with them.0:18
It's true that teenagers and even small children are not like we used to be in the past.0:25
But certain basic things are the same.0:32
In my opinion, adults should remember those things and then probably it will be easier to manage children.0:35
What are they, doctor?0:43
First of all, we shouldn't think that growing up is an easy and quick thing.0:45
It certainly comes naturally, but development takes time.0:50
The best thing is to treat children like flowers and let them grow naturally.0:55
But instead of water, it is necessary to give children plenty of love.1:00
And you can't give them too much patience.1:05
Growing up is always a difficult business.1:09
It is difficult at all stages of development.1:13
And that's true even for the best of children.1:17
By the way, it's not only their physical growth.1:20
Maybe more important is their intellectual development.1:24
Many parents say that nowadays it's nearly impossible to make kids do what they must do.1:27
For goodness sake, don't try to fight your children and don't make them your enemies.1:32
You should listen to them with understanding and sympathy.1:37
Try to avoid statements and comments which create argument and tension.1:40
In other words, let them do what they would like to do.1:45
In this case, a lot of things go wrong.1:48
But children try to establish themselves in this world according to their own views.1:53
They are sure they are clever enough to decide for themselves.1:59
But adults just order them around and tell them what to do and what they mustn't do.2:03
Why not do it in a roundabout way?2:10
Children often don't see their parents opinions or don't agree with them.2:13
That's true, and I know from my own experience that makes lots of adults angry and irritable.2:18
We certainly should keep anger under control.2:23
Anger is harmful to our children.2:27
Parents usually try to remain calm, but our strength and patience are limited.2:30
Sometimes we can't cope with the situation.2:36
Maybe we can't stay calm.2:39
And then we shout, scream and yell at those to whom we have devoted all our interests and love.2:41
And then we start name calling using words such as stupid, silly or foolish.2:47
But it's so difficult to control yourself when you are angry and believe that your child deserves punishment.2:52
Yet things said in the heat of the moment are often too painful and unfair and hurt young people.3:00
We must understand that a time will certainly come when a child will make us angry.3:07
And then, please, no name calling and no shouting.3:13
It's important to find out what is wrong, to analyze the situation in a calm and quiet atmosphere and remember about respect for children.3:17
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